Here my skills come up a little short. l'm not sure what I should be leaving and what I should be getting rid of, so I stick to what I know. Grass and brown stuff!
I get to work clearing as much as I can. I hear the rustling of bushes beside me and I look over to see a staff member chopping at a bush, removing large branches. She has a huge pile of branches, weeds, and large debris beside her.
I look to my tiny one inch pile of grass I've weeded.
She walks by, hefty branch hoisted over her shoulder. She smiles,
I smile back, tiny blade of grass pinch between my fingers.
Beside me, Justine Dimon a volunteer from VGH, determinedly works at pruning a blackberry bush while continually unsnagging herself from the thorns. Justine is a student offering her time to the program. She is not here to gain required hours for a course, as I had first suspected. Instead she says she comes because it helps to calm her between courses and she loves the family feel around the center. She says she enjoys how there is always so much going on with the many diverse programs the center also offers, including an art program, and the community kitchen program.
As Justine and I pull out what we both hope are the weeds of the garden, she shares some of her experiences.
"It can be difficult to find balance between being helpful and supportive to the residents, while also making sure they have as much independence for themselves as possible."
Despite the few challenges, she has mainly been impacted in a positive way.
"Being here, I have learned about the many different types of disabilities. I've learned that having a disability doesn't need to slow you down. Those with disabilities learn to adapt and have many different tools of coping."
I'm impressed by her perspective and enjoying hearing of her experiences. However, I have run out of grass and brown things, so its time leave this job to those who actually know what they are doing.
I'm feeling slightly inadequate with my lack of knowledge of weeds and, well..... gardening in total, but I have to note here that as much inexperience as I have, no matter how slow I was, or how many silly questions I had to ask, I never once felt that they were impatient with me. Everyone was always encouraging and happy to answer any questions. It comes across as a very friendly and supportive environment to learn in.
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